The choices you take determine what pretty much happens next and what goes is all on you. Sometimes there are instances that just might destroy you- well if it isn’t aided immediately, you’ll just be torn asunder. We make our own choices because we’ve been given freewill and have to learn to put that ability into good use. If we ever make a wrong choice, we learn from it. I know what I’m saying is literally the basics but sometimes- most of the time, what we need is a reminder to knock some sense into ourselves.